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BlueDating.com is a large and extensive online web site with many features and benefits. Whilst we have tried very hard to make everything as clear and obvious as possible, we recognise that not everybody will fully understand everything straight off. So on this page we present links to help topics on almost every single aspect and feature of the site.

From the basic questions such as what to do if you forget your password, through to advanced topics such as privacy and safety, developing sexual relationships online and much more.

Just click the help topic you are interested in for further information.

Help Joining

  • Who can join?
  • How to join
  • Is it free to join?
  • Joining page privacy

Help My account

  • How to retrieve a forgotten username and password
  • Changing your username or password
  • How to change your registered postcode
  • How to change your registered country
  • How to change your registered email address
  • How to change your screen name

Help Email address confirmation

  • Why do I need to confirm my email address?
  • How do I confirm my email address?
  • What if I did not receive my confirmation email?

Help Profiles

  • What is a profile?
  • Profile reviewing
  • Why is my profile under review?
  • Changing your profile
  • Removing your profile
  • Who has viewed my profile
  • Profile privacy information

Help Tags

  • What are tags?
  • How to use tags to get yourself found
  • How to use tags to find other members

Help Photos

  • Why upload photos?
  • What kind of photos are acceptable
  • How to upload photos
  • What is a portrait photo?
  • When will my photo go online?
  • How do I delete a photo?
  • How many photos can I upload?
  • What is the maximum size of photo I can upload?
  • How can I reduce the size of my photo so I can upload it?
  • Can I send you a photo by email?
  • Can I send you a photo by mobile phone?
  • What are max-sized images?
  • Photo privacy

Help Searching

  • How do I find someone?
  • How do I find someone outside my registered country?
  • How do I see who is online now?

Help Postcodes, zip codes and local searching

  • Why do you require my postcode?
  • How is my postcode used to help people find me?
  • How can I use my postcode to find other people?

Help Private messaging

  • What are private messages?
  • Sending a private message to another member
  • Find out if the recipient has read your message
  • Replying to private messages
  • Deleting private messages
  • Undeleting deleted private messages
  • Viewing messages you've sent
  • Find out who sent you a private message
  • Finding missing private messages
  • Why can't I send any more messages?
  • Blocking unwanted members from sending private messages

Help Membership points

  • What are membership points?
  • What are membership levels?

Help Friends and friendship circles

  • What are friends and friendship circles?
  • What are mutual friends?
  • How do I add someone as a friend?
  • Someone has added me to their circle of friends. What do I do?
  • How do see who has added me as a friend?
  • How do I stop myself appearing on someone else's profile?
  • How do I remove a friendship link?

Help Favourites, winks, kisses, hugs and admirers

  • What are favourites?
  • What are winks, kisses and hugs?
  • What do bonkers, gorgeous and literary genius mean?
  • How do I delete a favourite, wink, kiss etc

Help Blocking

  • What is blocking?
  • How do I block a particular member?
  • What are the effects of blocking another member?
  • Does the other member know I have blocked them?
  • How do I unblock another member?
  • Group blocking
  • How do I set a group block?
  • What are the effects of blocking groups of people?

Help Unfriendliness or offensive content

  • How do I make a complaint about another member's conduct?
  • How are complaints handled?
  • What if my account has been suspended?

Help General

  • How do I close my account?
  • Do you have any dating tips?
  • What will you do with my email address or other personal data?

Help Getting in touch

  • How can I make a suggestion about the site?
  • How can I contact you?


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